Friday, August 18, 2017

An open letter to the girl who didn't get in her first choice sorority

I started this post two years ago, but just never hit publish. With recruitment season being in full swing I thought now was a great time to finally share. Image result for hey girl

Hey Girl,

So Bid Day came and went and it wasn't like you imagined. You had pictured yourself opening that envelope and seeing a different president's signature, a different crest, a different set of letters.

Guess what, you aren't alone. There is some girl in the "top" house on your campus a little bit upset because she didn't get the house she had really wanted. Maybe she's a freshmen or maybe she's a senior who's just realized her experience hasn't been what she always dreamed it would be. I was you.  I didn't get my first choice house and you know what, I had a much better sorority experience than any of my friends in my first choice house. When I look back on it now I honestly can't imagine being in any other house than my own. I know it's corny to say trust the system because it works, but it honestly works.

The set of letters you'll wear on your tshirts for the next four years don't define you; what you do in those letters define you. So finish your pity party and realize you're in for the best four years of your life. There's a reason they're called your sorority sisters. These women will become your family, your home away from home, your study buddies, your shotgun riders for late night taco bell. They'll be there when Justin cheats on you with that horrible girl from his biology lab, and they'll be there with the biggest smiles and loudest squeals of delight when Ryan asks you to be his wife.

So open you heart, open your mind, and get ready for the best adventure of your life. And when all else fails go look at your wiki page and find the list of all your famous sisters or scroll your national's Instagram feed.





2 comments:

  1. Yes to everything about this post! I wouldn't trade my sorority experience for the world and it wasn't my top choice either! I love how you say it's not the letters that define you but what you do in those letters that defines you. LOVE.

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